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Have you heard guys recount stories of marathon rounds of sex; bedroom romps lasting two, three or even six hours? What the hell is their secret? How do they sustain themselves for so long, considering that you generally get through the entire act inside of half an hour?
As you've probably figured out by now from my other columns, there is no single, magic secret to anything when it comes to women. This is especially the case when it comes to sex, which is always quite personal and situation-dependent. There are always, however, general principles to follow.
In theory, four things are required to be able to have all-night sex (with one woman, that is):
Physical chemistry: To keep both partners physically aroused and interested after the initial excitement, you need that electricity.
Stamina: Fit sex is incomparably better. It's a strenuous activity that works those abs and arms.
Technique: Your technique needs to extend beyond only one or two moves. That gets boring.
Plenty of ideas: Fresh ideas will ensure that no one gets bored. |
Maybe the guys who brag about how long they last are lying, and if they don't have all of the above ingredients, it's guaranteed that they are. But with the right woman, you can have sex like this more often than not.
Read on to see how I applied my various Player tools to have a great evening of sex just a few weeks ago.
Back to our story
Being quite a sexual creature, Janice picked up on the mood very well and accelerated the vibe in the direction of where we'd left off last time -- screaming with pleasure. While taking a walk after our dumplings, we stopped in a park to sit on a bench.
Hands started roaming, and soon enough our lips were locked. I'd like to say that I got her worked up, but, truth be told, we got each other worked up. The kissing and massaging got to the point where moving this party somewhere more private became a foregone conclusion. I suggested my pad, and she huskily accepted.
Player's Tip: Show respect
No matter how sexual your relationship with a woman, never compromise her dignity by exposing her in public. Keep your hands off her breasts, away from between her legs, and never expose too much of her skin. Kissing her bare chest just below her neck is a good middle ground; it's an erogenous zone and will get her mind going about how well her other erogenous zones will respond to your touch, but is still relatively respectable.
Public butt grabbing depends on the woman, so proceed with caution. No woman wants to be perceived as a tramp in the street, even if only strangers will see.
the electric slide
Once Janice and I got back to my place, we continued kissing to some funky jungle beats I put on the stereo. After asking her drink preference, I popped a bottle of wine, then gave her feet a massage with a couple of steaming wash cloths that I had microwaved. This opened the door for me to kiss her feet, which I'd discovered on our first night was a very sensitive area for her.
I proceeded to kiss the insides of her legs, behind her knees, the underside of her forearms and elbows, her stomach, her collarbone, and gradually worked around to her breasts. You can prolong this body kissing as needed -- you'll find few women will mind, or if they do, they only mind in an "I can't take it anymore, do me now!" kind of way.
I then moved into the "Electric Slide" position, putting our genitals together but still concentrating my mouth on her extremities.
Player's Tip: Warm her up
If you're not already too intoxicated, a little ongoing alcohol can help keep both of you in the mood. Wine works very well. It's classier than beer or liquor, women generally like it (if a woman can only stand one type of alcohol, it's usually white wine), and it doesn't send the message that you're trying to get her drunk.
Pay attention to the softer parts of her skin, which are generally quite sensitive. Many guys skip over the backs of knees, the insides of arms, ankles, and other oft-overlooked spots. Pay attention to them with soft, wet kisses, or by running your tongue along them, then blowing on the same, newly moistened spot.
Continue to build the tension slowly, so as not to peak too soon. Although there will be little deviations, try to think of foreplay as one big, very gradual crescendo. Don't use any "melt moves" too soon, as you'll up the volume too quickly. This slower pace can be difficult for either partner to maintain, especially the male. Therefore, sometimes it's good to go about some foreplay, then move to orgasm, and then luxuriate in long foreplay after both partners have come, when the mood is still very sexual but there is less biological urgency. Read the vibe and the situation to decide what's best.
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